January 2011
3 posts
Social media: The love affair
E-harmony, zoosk and match.com, to name a few, push online dating as not only the modern alternative to finding love, but the most simple and straight to the point way of doing so. They make finding love as simple as filling out your voter registration card and hitting submit on a site. What they fail to do is to remind you to leave your heart at the door and to pack an extra pair of common...
The miseducation of the black american doll aka...
Pretty little girl through and through
purposely lost
without a clue
she doesn’t want to be found
true and true
That is an excerpt from a poem I wrote/performed my last semester of undergrad 2007 b.b. (before barbies). I’ve never idolized the barbie doll, perhaps it’s because my father took the time to explain to me that this doll was never created for me. In the...
Casual sex- Adversary or survivor tool?
I often wonder if lack of a sex life is just as much of a turn off as too much of a sex life. Can someone seem so self efficient that it makes the opposite sex question if they are physically needed?
Celibacy is something I’ve been doing for awhile, I ask my male friends when their last fling was and its usually a few weeks vs my several months and I always get the “oh.”...